Love, Interdependence, Justice Lisa Doege Love, Interdependence, Justice Lisa Doege

The Difficult, Miraculous Gift of Compassion

Last week I spoke at length about surviving in today’s world without being swamped with compassion fatigue, about the two steps I believe will buoy us up even as our days and hours are filled with situations demanding our compassion, that will protect our hearts while allowing us to participate in the healing of the unending sorrow that surrounds us.

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Love, Interdependence, Transformation Lisa Doege Love, Interdependence, Transformation Lisa Doege

Compassion Says

About thirty years ago Charles Figley, the Paul Henry Kurzweg Chair in Disaster Mental Health at Tulane University, coined the phrase compassion fatigue to refer to

“absorbing information and often the suffering of others through empathy. It happens when a helping professional experiences exhaustion due to caring for someone, and can lead to profound emotional and physical erosion that takes place when helpers are unable to refuel and regenerate themselves.”

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Love, Equity, Justice Lisa Doege Love, Equity, Justice Lisa Doege

To Belong or Not to Belong

If I had a do-over on this morning’s sermon title, I’d choose Not All Belonging is Salve. That profound truth comes from NYTimes bestselling author of Black Liturgies, Cole Arthur Riley who wrote:

"I'm beginning to think alienation and rejection are the two great persuaders of our own unloveliness.

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Interdependence, Love, Pluralism Lisa Doege Interdependence, Love, Pluralism Lisa Doege

A Place to Stay and Grow and Thrive

If Symborska is right, and all the water that is and ever was in the world is contained, somehow, in this single drop on my finger and in the drops in the water you brought with you this morning and in the sources from which you gathered your water–and there is scientific basis for that claim–and if we turn this morning to water as a metaphor for truth or enlightenment, than isn’t it a bit foolish that we come again and again to this specific place and time in search of what might be found anywhere there is water, at home or our neighborhood or our home towns or wherever we went for vacation this summer or pretty much anywhere? Perhaps. But it matters that we are here.

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Interdependence, Love, Justice Lisa Doege Interdependence, Love, Justice Lisa Doege

What Promises Shall Be Made?

Pinkie promise.

Cross my heart and hope to die, stick a needle in my eye.

That’s a piecrust promise.

Do you solemnly swear…?

Do you…? I do.

We make promises throughout our lives, to friends, family members, therapists, judges, spouses, neighbors, just about everyone with whom we enter relationships. Some of those promises are explicit and some are tacit but no less real.

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Justice, Equity, Love Lisa Doege Justice, Equity, Love Lisa Doege

All the Effectiveness of a Typewriter Eraser

If you are about my age or older you remember back before backspace and delete. Before word processing. Before that magic tape in a Brother electric typewriter that would somehow lift a typed character from a page–but only one or two characters back and only if the typebars were perfectly aligned. Back before White-Out. Back when there were typewriter erasers. Typically disc shaped pink erasers attached to stiff plastic brushes, though some later ones were pencil shaped with a stiff plastic brush at the opposite end of the cylinder.

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Love, Transformation, Interdependence Lisa Doege Love, Transformation, Interdependence Lisa Doege

Meditation for Music Sunday

‘Tis said “music has charms to soothe the savage breast”. And haven’t we felt that to be so over and over again? Not just lullabies or the most lyrical of etudes, either. Soulful blues, hard-driving rock, EDM, sailing, wailing folk, rollicking Zydeco–these, too, and more, soothe the savage breast. Because sometimes frayed or enraged nerves easily fall into alignment with gentle melodies and smooth rhythms.

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Love Lisa Doege Love Lisa Doege

Loving Vigil Keeping

Phillippa’s Place, where our religious education program lives, is about as far from this sanctuary as you can get and still be in the church. Two buildings over and a level and a half up. Many of you have never been up there–or haven’t for quite some time.

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Generosity, Interdependence, Love Lisa Doege Generosity, Interdependence, Love Lisa Doege

The Best of Our Love

In nearly 31 years of ministry I’ve participated in lots of stewardship campaigns, each with a different theme.

I remember the year the theme was peloton, and folks were encouraged to give generously enough so that those church members with fewer financial resources were able to draft along with them, while the whole church still moved forward.

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